This is the most important skill any man must learn if he wishes to reach his dating potential and have choice of women in his life. Unless you approach a woman, you will never get to know her, date her or have sex with her. But this is not just about women. The anxiety you feel when you approach a woman is part of a larger issue called SOCIAL anxiety.

Every one of us has some level of social anxiety, but the highest form of it manifests when you approach women.

By learning to approach women, you tackle the most intense form of social anxiety.

To approach and connect with women successfully, you have to bring out your own best personality. You have to make changes to yourself. You have to become more confident, you have to develop the ability to take quick decisions, you need confident body language and a relaxed voice tone.

Making these changes will help you with more than just women. They wukk make you more confident and outgoing at social gatherings. Your relationships with your friends and families will improve. You will build stronger bonds with colleagues at work. You will evolve into a attractive man who approaches life with a bold new perspective. Earlier you might be insecure and self-conscious, but once you get this skill handled, you will radiate as you walk down the street.

That is one of the reasons why you need the skills of approaching. If she happens to be married or not available or not interested, you can disengage and walk away pleasantly, without any drama, without feeling rejected. But unless you approach her, you will NEVER KNOW.

We don't encourage you to cheat on your girlfriend or wife. Affairs are NOT cool.

But flirting is a cool skill to have. :)

Having the skill to approach women and talk to them, helps you preserve your fun and flirty persona.

It helps you radiate a flirtatious charm that your partner will love. In fact, the reason many relationships lack that zing is because the man does not possess the skill of flirting.

We will have cute female hostesses at the workshop on whom you will practice approaching and talking. You will get frank feedback (from Shiva and from the hostesses) to correct your approaching technique. Our hostesses are experts at rejecting guys at social places. They know what techniques work on girls and what don't. They'll give you brutally honest feedback to help you become more attractive.

We are born with the urge to have sex, not the art of making love.

All kinds of men - businessmen, students, artists, builders, doctors, architects, CEOs, sportsmen, engineers, even retired senior citizens. They come from various cultural and professional backgrounds, and in a variety of sizes and shapes - tall, short, bald, hairy. And they come with just one single purpose - to know more about sex, specifically, to know how they can better please the women in their lives. Here are some of the reasons they gave for attending the workshop:

• An engineer from Pune: "I know there are tricks to make sex more fun for my wife and me, and I want to learn as many of them as I can."
• A real estate agent from Mumbai : "I have a loving wife who never complains, no matter how selfish I am in bed. I have been wanting to learn what pleases women, and I want to do those things for my wife."
• A businessman from Hyderabad : "In my culture women are not comfortable describing what they want their men to do during sex. So if there is some indirect way to get this information, I would love to have it."
• A textile dealer from Thane : "I am getting married next month, I don't want to be ignorant on my wedding night. I want to know all the right things to do and then go in there and do it!"
• A consultant from Kolkata : "As a man it's easy for me to get my release during sex, but if there is some way for me to increase my wife's satisfaction, I would be grateful for the info."

Vatsyayan wrote in the Kama Sutra that Kama (the art of sensual love-making) was a subject which required to be learned, and could not be left unstudied. He further affirmed that both men and women need to learn this.

There was a time in ancient India, when along with the great treatises of Yoga, Ayurveda and Vedanta, the Kama Sutra was much read and discussed.

Was it the orthodoxy of the mughals that restrained free discussion about love-making? Was it the Brahmanical influence with its strong elements of asceticism that created constraints and rigidities? We do not know for sure, but somewhere along the way we stopped learning how to be great lovers.

Here's an overview of what you will learn on Day 2 :

• Sexual and reproductive anatomy overview

  In male :penis, testicles, prostate and sperm.

  In female : clitoris, vaginal lips, vagina, perineum, cervix, uterus, ovaries and fallopian tubes.

• Close-up view of female genitalia

  You will see close-up views of a woman's vulva: the inner and outer lips, the clitoris, the vaginal opening, the mons pubis and the perineum. Demonstrated up close, in a frank manner using training aids.

• Differences between men and women:

  Find out how men and women approach and experience sex differently. Example : Men will usually decide based on a woman's looks, women usually decide based on how she's been treated....MORE EXAMPLES

• What women find sexy in a man

  Ask most men what women find sexy in a man, and the typical answers are "good looks ", "good body", "impressive equipment". But every woman knows there is no connection between how a man looks and how he loves. What women really find sexy in a man is something else entirely, it's about how he moves, how he reacts and and how he interacts with her.

• Sexual fears of women

  Most men are so caught up in their own fears they don't realize that women have sexual fears too. To give her absolute pleasure you have to know what a woman enjoys most AND fears most about sex. We discuss the 3 basic fears most women have about sex.

• Seduction : arousing her mind

  Learn the art of seducing a woman's mind by romancing and relaxing her. Unless a woman is first aroused mentally, it's almost impossible for her to get physcially aroused.

• Foreplay : arousing her body

  Do you know her hotspots from head to toe? We will show you a woman's 18 erogenous zones using a life-size dummy and teach you delightful ways to awaken them using fingers, tongue, lips, teeth, breath, penis and more.

• The art of touching

  Knowing how and where to touch her is key to mastering the ability to arouse a woman to heights of pleasure. We will show you delightful ways to touch a woman.

• The art of kissing

  If you kiss a woman well, and kiss her the way she wants to be kissed, you are halfway to your destination of having her melt in your arms. We point out the most common mistakes men make while kissing a woman, and we teach you 3 sensuous kissing techniques (we make attendees practice it on the back of their palm until they get it). Plus, lots of tips and tricks that make it more pleasurable for both of you.

• Finger sex

  Tips and tricks to give a woman amazing pleasure between her legs using just your fingers. Also : common mistakes men make while using their fingers (which could turn her off, or even hurt her).

• The 3 kinds of female orgasms

  How to give your partner 3 kinds of orgasms : clitoral, vaginal (or G-spot) and cervical

• The art of oral sex

  Delicious ways to use your tongue, lips, and fingers in, on and around a woman's vulva. Also, misconceptions about oral sex cleared.

• Sex positions

  We discuss the 6 basic positions for sexual intercourse and the advantages of each. Also, thrusting techniques that enhance her pleasure.

• Afterplay

  A lot of men just roll over and fall asleep after sex or show rushed behaviour like getting dressed or using the phone. It takes just a few minutes to express the loving, tender reassurance that all women need after sex.

• Longer lasting erections

  Involuntary ejaculation is the number-one sex problem affecting young men. We discuss the common causes of premature ejaculation and practical exercises that helps improve your ejaculatory control.

• Making love to a virgin

  As the first man to make love to her, you can put her on the road to a fulfilling sex life or you can fill her head with all kinds of sexual anxieties. The suggestions in this section could help maximize pleasure for both of you.

• What women hate

  10 things you should definetely avoid doing if you don't want to turn-off a woman during sex.

• Sexuality myths & facts

  Common myths related to sex and the facts that demolish them.

• What the law states

  Overview of what sexual acts are illegal as per the Indian penal code.

• Safer sex:

  The risks of unprotected sex. Common sexually transmitted diseases, their symptoms and treatment.

• Start to finish

  A suggested sequence of techniques to make love to a woman from start to finish, from undressing her right upto afterplay. Like a step-by-step dummies' guide. You can use this sequence exactly as it is, or you can add your own touches to it.

• The workshop is NOT meant to treat any physical condition that you may have; for that it is best to consult your physician
• There will be NO nudity and NO live models
• There will NOT be any kind of sexual touching, stimulation or titillation
• There will NOT be any kind of pornographic videos or photographs displayed

A book can be a good learning tool. But the INTERACTIVITY of the workshop cannot be matched by any other medium of learning.

At the workshop you will touch and feel a realistic life-size vulva, made of a fleshy skin-like material. You will learn ways to touch its various parts in ways that give a woman maximum pleasure.

Workshop attendees are surprised to learn how delicately women expect to be touched, especially the vulva and the clitoris. Quite different from the rough manner in which men handle their penises.

Attendees also learn to KISS by kissing the back of their own hand, while the instructor supervises and corrects their technique.

Techniques are taught in an interactive manner...until attendees GET IT and demonstrate to the seminar conductor that they get it. Every attendee leaves the seminar, not just with the theory but with the actual competence of DOING it right.

Note: Only dummy replicas are used at the workshop. NO LIVE MODELS.

Most male pornography is NOT a good teacher of how to sexually satisfy women.

1. Porn is primarily created for visual stimulation of male viewes, and therefore largely feature genital-based lovemaking (what men like to see), not the whole-body love making (that women prefer).
2. The female actors in the movie are paid to scream in delight even if they are not enjoying it. This makes male viewers expect the same unrealistic responses from their partners in real life, and are disappointed when they don't get them.
3. Most porn is targeted only towards men, therefore a woman's needs and expectations are not taken into account.

Ever see a woman in a porn video have an orgasm? Almost never.Despite the super-sized penises of the men, we only see women moan and moan but never orgasm. Why not? Because great love making does not need a big, hard penis. The workshop will explain how any man can learn to sexually satisfy women the way they prefer.

If you have a partner who is comfortable enough to tell you, and perhaps even show you what pleases her during sex, you're a lucky man. But many women will not say it.

Women WANT men to know what pleases them sexually but usually hesitate to tell them in a direct way. Here are some reasons why... Why women hesitate to say what they like during sex

Only 20 attendees are accepted for each workshop to maintain an informal and personal atmosphere that encourages frank discussion.