5 Steps of the mating dance

There is a sequence of 5 steps that a man and a woman have to go through, to move from eye contact to sex.

  1. 1. Approach

    Approach and break the ice. You can open with a simple “Hi” or you can minimize chances of rejection by using routines.
  2. 2. Show that you are a cool guy

    Become so interesting that she stops thinking “Why is he talking to me?” and thinks “I hope he doesn’t stop talking to me!”
  3. 3. Disqualify her

    Show active disinterest in her and talk to the rest of her friends, until she provides a reason for you to be interested in her.
  4. 4. Isolate & Connect

    After she provides you with a reason to be interested in her, isolate her and develop an emotional connection by finding things in common, and making her feel that this was meant to happen.
  5. 5. Seduce

    Physically advance in a way that doesn’t make her uncomfortable, until you have sex with her.
Approach

Approach

Approach and break the ice. You can open with a simple "Hi" or you can minimize chances of rejection by using routines.

Show that you’re a cool guy

Show that you’re a cool guy

Become so interesting that she stops thinking “Why is he talking to me?” and thinks “I hope he doesn’t stop talking to me!”

Disqualify her

Disqualify her

Show active disinterest in her and talk to the rest of her friends, until she provides a reason for you to be attracted to her.

Isolate & Connect

Isolate & Connect

Develop an emotional connnection by finding things in common, and making her feel that this was destined to happen.

Seduce

Seduce

Physically advance in a way that doesn’t make her uncomfortable, until you have sex with her