The Creepy type of guy is attracted to a woman but does not have the courage to openly interact
with her, and so he hovers around hoping something will just happen. He’s the guy sitting in the car
parked outside her salsa class. He’s the guy who traces her mailing address and sends anonymous
letters. He’s the guy at the bar who will stare at her from a distance, and when he’s drunk enough,
approaches her without a smile and tries to make stiff, serious conversation.

Hint: Women run away from creepy.

The Provider type of guy treats attraction like a business deal. He buys her dinners and gifts, and in
return, he hopes she’ll have a relationship with him. But that’s not how attraction works. When a man
asks a woman, “Can I take you out for dinner?” what she hears him say is, “I cannot have fun without you.
So I’d like to buy you some food and make you see me as a provider and then, hopefully, you’ll accept
me and make my life exciting.” Hint : Women usually don’t have sex with provider guys; they almost
always delay sex until marriage.

The Lover type understands attraction. When he is interested in a woman and wants to spend time with
her, he says “I’m going for a wine tasting workshop on wednesday, you want to come along?” What the
woman hears him say is, “I’m already having a fun time without you. If you join me we can have fun
together, if you don’t join me I’ll still have fun”. This is the kind of man that women desire sexually.
Hint : Many women seek  a provider type of guy as a husband or boyfriend to pay the bills, while
discreetly seeking a lover type on the side.