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In many ancient tribes and cultures, when boys reach a certain age, they are put
through a ritual that is often extremely painful and terrifying.
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Only after successfully enduring the pain and horror of the ritual is the boy
considered worthy of being a warrior man.
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Among the Satori tribes of Brazil, deadly bullet ants are used for the ritual.
The boys’ hands are covered with gloves filled with hundreds of poisonous ants
while he endures the excruciating pain of thousands of toxic stings.
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Below is a video of the ritual
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Every Satori boy has to go through this ritual.
20 times.
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After the ritual, the ‘boy’ is dead and the ‘warrior man’ is born.
He is now invited to participate in adult male activities. He goes out hunting, he takes
part in protecting his people from enemy tribes and wild animals, he helps build shelters for
his people and he approaches the woman he is sexually attracted to.
Like a man.
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Sadly, most modern cultures no longer have such rituals.
There is no defining moment in the life of most modern males that makes him feel that
NOW he has the permission to be a man.
Many of the challenges faced by men today is because the boy inside is still alive.
In fact it is the boy inside that controls his attitude to life, his behaviour at work, his approach
to problem solving and the way he interacts with women.
The inability to take a decision, the fear of asking our boss for an increment, buying a woman
gifts in the hope of winning her approval, the fear of approaching a woman we’re attracted to,
the hesitation to get physical with a woman after she’s attracted…it’s ‘boy’ like behaviour.
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The ritual of approaching a woman is not just about improving your dating life.
It’s about becoming socially fearless.
It’s about taking a decision.
It’s about taking action in the face of fear.
It’s about not caring about what others’ think of you, and just doing what you feel like.
It’s about being comfortable doing uncomfortable things.
It’s about killing the boy inside and allowing the warrior man to emerge.
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Hint : When women say they like “bad boys” what they really mean is that they
are attracted to warrior men, not boys.
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