Before I understood women, it was difficult for me to take things to the physical level.
Girls would talk to me, they would even go out with me, but when I made the move physically,
I would get rejected.
Every single time.
Eventually, I realized my mistake.
My mistake was, trying to get sexual before making her comfortable with my non-sexual touch.
I would spend the entire evening without any physical contact…and as the evening drew to a close,
I would think “Okkkk, now is the BIG moment when I should make the move”
And I would lunge at her for a kiss and …*ouch*… REJECTION! 🙁
Today I know better.
- I know that I have to get physical (non-sexually) within minutes of meeting a woman.
- I know that getting physical with a woman is a smooth and g-r-a-d-u-a-l process.
There is no BIG MOMENT to make the move. - I know that if I have not been touching her in many little ways non-sexually,
then it’s difficult to go for the sexual touch later.
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So what are some ways to get physical with a woman without creeping her out?
Try these for starters…
* Hug her when you meet
* High-five over anything
* Sit side by side (never facing)
* When you sit together, sit close enough so that your arms or legs are touching (I often see couples sitting too far apart, which actually turns off women). And by the way, if she communicates to you that she’s not comfortable with your closeness, roll your eyes, move away and leave an exaggeratedly large space between the two of you. Then make conversation in an exaggerated loud voice, “SO, SEEN ANY GOOD MOVIES LATELY?” This will usually make her socially uncomfortable and will want you to come closer. You can then teasingly ask  if she grew up in Afghanistan.  😉
* Rest a hand on her knee while excusing yourself to go to bathroom/answer phone/get a drink.
* Offer your arm to her while moving from one venue to another.
* While entering a venue, place your hand on the small of her back.
* Play games that involve touching. Like a thumb wrestling contest, or guessing her personality by reading her palm.
* If you dance together, pull her, push her, toss her around.
* When you enter a movie theater, take her hand and lead her to the seat of your choice.
* Whenever you get the chance, say “Bad girl!” and spank her ass.
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And, when you finally kiss her, don’t stick to her mouth like a leech.
Be the first to break away and say, “That’s all you get for now” 😉
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