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When we see a hot babe with an ugly guy, we are often amused.
We find it ridiculous that a girl this hot could choose a guy this ugly/thin/fat/short/bald etc.
“Dekh, langoor ke haath angoor!”, we laugh with our friends.
What we don’t realize is that the joke is on us.
We don’t have the girl, he does. 😉
We’re so busy laughing at the guy, we miss the lessons he could teach us to improve our own attraction skills.
Next time you see a hot babe with a guy who doesn’t look like he deserves her, observe closely.
What is it about him that’s different from most guys?
I guarantee, you will find he has one or more of these 3 qualities :
- Even though he is physically ugly, he has an attitude that says “I don’t give a f**k about what the world thinks of me”. His body language exudes confidence, his voice might be so loud that it causes people to stare at the couple, but he doesn’t give a f**k about the people staring. In fact he doesn’t even notice them.
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Or…
——————– - Even though he is ugly, he is dressed in a way that makes him stand out rather than blend in. It could be his outlandish clothes or his eccentric bandana or colourful cap or his interesting hairstyle or his fashion accessories (chains, bracelets, ear rings etc)…whatever it is, it makes him stand out from the crowd.
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Or…
——————– - Even though he is obviously ugly and she’s obviously too good for him, that’s not how they are interacting with each other. Watch closely and you’ll find him treating her as if she is ugly and he is beautiful, and as if she is the one chasing him.
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Here are the lessons you can learn from every “langoor” with a hot girl :
- For women, more important than your physical looks, is your attitude.
Men are attracted to physical looks in a woman. But for women, more than looks, she is attracted to his personality. A good-looking guy admiring her from a distance because he has no balls to approach her is not as attractive to her as a short, fat, bald guy with the balls to approach and talk to her.
———————————— - Guys who stand out are more attractive to women than guys who blend in.
A guy who stands out from other guys (even if his fashion style seems bizarre to you) is more attractive than a guy with a plain style of dressing.
———————————— - No matter how hot a girl, never put her on a pedestal.
While interacting with women, behave as if YOU are the prize that she is chasing. This will make you appear higher value than the 900 guys before you who had treated her like the prize and chased her.
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And by the way, that guy looks like a “langoor” only to you.
To her, he looks HOT. 🙂
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