How to talk to women. Tip # 78

 

 Tease her about something.

 

When most guys meet a girl, they think : what do I compliment her about?

When I meet a girl, I think : what do I tease her about? 

 

Example : Look at this girl. What can you tease her about?

 

Hint : Her ear rings 

 

Here’s what I would say…

 

Me : “Why are you wearing bangles on your ears?”

She : *shocked look*

Me : “Can’t you afford to buy ear rings?

She : “Blah, blah”…

 

You’re probably thinking, how would I transition from that to a real conversation?

 

It could be as simple as….

“Hey, actually I just saw you from over there and I wanted to talk to you.
I am Shiva.” (said with a smile, so she knows you were joking earlier)

 

Because I started in such a ballsy way, she is intrigued and will want to know
more about me, and will usually contribute to take the conversation further.

 

Here are 3 more creative ways to transition that have worked for me and my clients.

1. (take a close look at the ear rings)
   “Hmmm…actually from up close, they don’t look that bad. (look at her, smile)
   Hey, I am Shiva. Who are you?” (extend hand for a handshake)
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2. “Thank God…at least you have a sense of humor. I am Shiva. Who are you?”
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3. (if she has taken offence and is visibly upset, try this) 
   “Hey, I was just teasing. Actually, I saw you from over there, and
   I thought you are really cute and I wanted to come talk to you.
   My name is Shiva, what’s your name?”
   (extend your hand for a handshake)

 

 

Here’s the gyaan behind the technique

Most men are so desperate to be friendly with a woman, they are
always looking to be on her good side, always telling her stuff that
they think she likes to hear.

They won’t say anything that might upset her because they don’t
want to risk losing her.

The problem? Women know your strategy. They know you’re
playing it safe because you don’t have options with women.

So imagine her feeling when a man comes along who does NOT play it safe.

He teases her, says stuff that actually upsets her a bit.

And that makes her feel…

“this man doesn’t care if I am upset”  >> “which means he doesn’t mind losing me”  >> 
“which means he has lots of women”  >>  “which means he could be a high value male”  >>
“I think I want to fuck him!”

 

If  you think it is risky to tease a woman and you prefer to play it safe,
remember : while attracting women, safe is risky and risky is safe. 

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