Suppose you’re with some friends at a swanky lounge bar.
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You’re dressed hot, with a cool new jacket and shoes, a classic Fedora hat
completes your Italian gangsta look.
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You’re in a great state of mind. You’re laughing, joking, having fun with your friends.
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Beautiful women are looking at you. Some of them are giving you the eye from across the room.
You’re determined to walk out of the bar with the hottest babe tonight.
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Suddenly, a woman approaches you.
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This woman.
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She sidles up to you and says coyly, “You are very handsome”
and giggles nervously.
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Eeeeeeeeeeeek!! This is NOT the kind of woman you’re interested in.
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In fact, you don’t want to be even SEEN talking to her.
You politely say, “thank you” and hope that she leaves.
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But she stays and continues to make small talk.
She tells you her name and wants to know yours.
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This is not good.
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The more people see you talking to her, the lower your value in the venue dips.
You don’t want to know her name, you don’t want to tell her yours,
you just want her to LEAVE!
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But she won’t go away. And now she wants you to dance with her.
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You can sense your value in the bar plummeting. You have to act fast.
You tell her sternly, “Look, we are discussing something important, leave us alone”
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Normally, you’re not this rude, but you have to get rid of her because
she’s screwing up your chances of attracting a hot babe.
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Makes sense, doesn’t it?
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That is EXACTLY how a beautiful woman feels when an unattractive guy approaches her.
She wants him to go away because he is lowering her value in the room,
and screwing up her chances of attracting a hot guy.
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The solution? Simple. Don’t approach like a man who lowers her value.
Approach like a man who raises her value. So she’ll want you to stay.
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Btw, guys are lucky. To look attractive, guys have to do less work than women.
For a woman to look attractive, she has to be PHYSICALLY attractive. She has to
look young and slim, have a great figure, dress sexy, have great hair and skin, etc.
It’s all physical, all visual. But for a man to look attractive, physical looks don’t
matter so much. All a man needs is great PERSONALITY. All he needs is to walk
and talk like a real man.