How does learning to approach women make you
better at public speaking?

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Approach anxiety is part of a larger issue called SOCIAL anxiety.

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Most people have some level of social anxiety.

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Some fear making presentations, some are uncomfortable talking to strangers,
some hesitate asking their boss for a raise, some are reluctant to sing or
dance at a party, some fear public speaking, some are uncomfortable dressing
in trendy clothes…

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Whatever your social anxiety, the root cause is a fear of rejection.

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You are afraid you’ll be rejected and disgraced in public.

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So what do most people do?

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They avoid making presentations, they avoid dancing at parties, they avoid talking to
strangers, they avoid taking any initiative where the the spotlight will be on them.

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To avoid the pain of rejection, they decline opportunities for advancing their career,
their friendships, their love life…

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That’s a sad way of living life.

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So how should you handle the fear of rejection?

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Simple. Don’t give a fuck about what people think.

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Constantly tell yourself “I don’t give a fuck about what anybody thinks of me”

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(I know, fuck is a word that society doesn’t approve of, and I don’t give a fuck about that)

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As long as it’s legal, you can say and do WHATEVER you please. Whether society
approves or not.

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At the Real Man Academy, men learn to develop this attitude by facing the highest
form of social anxiety : the fear of approaching women.

When you feel anxiety while approaching a woman, you can train yourself to think,
“Ok, this is just my social anxiety acting up, I know it’ll be gone in 30 seconds so let
me just take action.”

And you take action. Without worrying about the outcome.

When you do this continuously, by approaching one woman after another, for 3 days, you
learn to handle this anxiety at a DEEP level.

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Not only does it improve your dating life, you find that all your other social fears*
suddenly seem like no big deal any more!

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You stop fearing public speaking, you stop fearing talking to strangers, you stop fearing
dancing in public.

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Now you don’t care what people think. Now you don’t give a fuck.

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You have learnt to climb Mount Everest, now the small hillocks are no big deal.

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3 simple tips to deal with approach anxiety :

1) Approach one woman daily for 30 days. Get her opinion on some
topic related to relationships. Continue talking if you can and get her number.
Or just say thank you and move on. Here’s a post on how to open conversations
by asking for an opinion.

2) Set hourly reminders into your cellphone to flash the message,
“I don’t give a fuck about what anybody in the world thinks of me”

3) Read ‘The Power of Now’ by Eckhart Tolle

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*Please note : Extreme cases of social anxiety require therapy from a qualified psychologist