When you stop kissing up to women, and start teasing them without
worrying about whether they like you, you will OFTEN hear things
like “you’re so mean†and “stop it!†etc.
They get upset and usually don’t know the reason why.
The reason they get upset is that they cannot CONTROL the situation.
The result is a paradox. They are feeling attraction for you while
they’re saying things like “you’re so meanâ€.