Women prefer men who are already having fun
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You can interact with a woman in a way that says…
“I need you, and only when I get you will I have fun in my life”
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Or you can interact with her in a way that says,
“I’m already having a fun time, are you fun enough to hang with me?”
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99% of guys talk to women the former way. He puts her on a pedestal, gives her all the power, puts his own life on standby to be available to her, he answers her phone calls immediately, instantly replies to her sms messages, adjusts his schedule to meet her at her convenience, gives her too many compliments and gifts, sends her too many sms and email messages, calls her too often, changes his opinions to meet her approval, never says NO to her requests, will always arrive 10 minutes early at a date, will always do what she wants, will never do anything that might upset her….in short, a man who is afraid to lose her because she is a BIG part of the excitement in his life.
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But women prefer the latter kind of guy. That is, the man who is laid back and having fun, who is unaffected by her beauty, who will tease and make fun of her, who is in no hurry to answer her phone calls, text messages and emails because he has a busy schedule that’s packed with interesting things, who has an opinion and will not change it just because she doesn’t agree, who will not compliment easily, who will often say NO to her requests, who will arrive 10 minutes late at dates…in short, a man who is not afraid to lose her because she is just a SMALL part of the excitement in his life.
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Remember this mantra : Quality women are attracted to men who are already having fun without a woman, not to men who are waiting for a woman to come along to start having fun.
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Learn the right way to approach & talk to women at the Art of Attraction workshops in
Pune and Mumbai, on Jan 30 and Feb 06. Details here
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